Tuesday, September 27, 2016

Are you open to meeting someone amazing?

My shirtless photo in match.com profile

Yesterday I received a hilarious message on match.com. The woman wants to interview me for a gigolo position for an "established and legit organization".

Lets remind myself, a gigolo is a male escort who is supported by a woman in a relationship. The gigolo is expected to provide companionship, to serve a woman with good manners and social skills, and often, to serve as a dancing partner as required by the woman in exchange for the support. The relationship may include sexual services as well...

So here is the full and exact message:

Hello there. I hope you are having a fantastic day! I cam across your profile and wanted to reach out because you absolutely fit the profile my boss was searching for this week. I work for a very credible lifestyle and introduction firm in Toronto that only deals with successful high level professionals and entrepreneurs, and I am sure she would want to speak with you to see if you are a good fit for out client. I wanted to see if there were any potential gentlemen here that would be interested in meeting some of our extraordinary and attractive female clients. You certainly have a great look which fits the mild we are searching for and I would love to know more. I would be happy to have you call me or I can email you and give you our website so you can see we are legit. I can't leave info here as it is a conflict for the dating site and I might get kicked off. :) 

Are you open to meeting someone amazing?

I replied briefly with "Not interested".

I was not so happy to get this message. It raises the issue of how women see my match.com profile.

It is true, I uploaded 12 photos including selfies, where I standing up, yoga practice and a photo without shirt - on the balcony, very nice photo. In the profile I did say "I like cuddling and sex"...

So based on the shirtless photo and "I like sex" in the profile this woman has concluded that I am good to be gigolo. Interesting!!!

I updated my match.com profile on Sunday and since then I did not receive anything worth of the attention. No likes, winks or messages to be followed up.

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About Zee Mark

I am an Ashtanga yoga practitioner from Toronto, Canada. I am writing a blog about awakening, yoga and everyday life. My entire life journey has led me to this very moment in time. I finally arrived to a place where I am okay with the truth that there is no truth.