Friday, December 2, 2016

77 Reasons You Should Have Sex On A First Date

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Hello there, are you a woman over 40? Do you have an online dating profile?


Then I am talking to you.

Online dating... if you're not so serious about it, it can be a great fun. Listen, there are no 77 reasons you should have sex on a first date, there is only one. It's perfectly okay to have sex on a first date. What do you have to lose? Your virginity? Dignity? Respect? Save time, do it on a first date.

You, as a woman in 40s, typically divorced or separated, are so caught up in society's expectation that you disregard your own personal desire. You're too busy trying to decipher what a guy is thinking that you don't listen to what you actually want. I can give you a great secret: he is not thinking about anything... except sex.

Come'n, how soon is too soon? How long do you wait before fooling around? What is appropriate? If you give it up too quickly, is that a bad sign for the potential relationship? Are you just easy if you give it up on first date? Are you frigid if you don't give it up within, say, 5 dates? Does your age plays into any of this?

Why put all this sex power and judgments into the guy hands? And moreover, why would you want to be with a man who don't respect your desires?

The first date is weird. You meet the stranger and the beginning is a little awkward. It involves drinking and careful eating and having a boring conversation. You may find him attractive even before you met him. You have already exchanged a few messages and you gave him your phone number. He called you. He was hot and you thought you are sharing the same interests. He asked you out on a date for a dinner, you agreed. You met him, you sat on the table across, you like him and having a great time and then... what?

A nice, normal, getting-to-know-you-and-laugh conversation; he is buying everything what you say. He doesn't just tell you every boring detail of his trivial life, you're not into that shit. You're actually having a real fun, you're relaxed and getting hot. The time is passing quickly, you're trying to fill out the gaps by talking gibberish, and you both laugh, you just don't want to hear him yelling "the bill please!"...

It is WTF situation, you have finally met him, it took a long process from seeing him online, texting, flirting and now? You want the whole package but unfortunately, the online dating has not removed all the boundaries around the first date sex, it is a topic of controversy, with many of you still believing in the shameful thing to do it. There's nothing wrong with having sex on a first date. Nobody going to think less of you or judge you. If you're feeling hot and you want it, then you should go for it.

Sex is not an exchange of goods, where you give it and a man receives it. Having sex on the first date shouldn't negatively impact chances for a long-term relationship. If so, then it is better to discover his abilities sooner than later.

I believe that when you start dating someone over 40s, something should happen within three dates. I recommend sex on the first date. Chemistry is the key - and if there is chemistry, then certainly everything is open. Having sex on the first date significantly cuts the time, (who has time?). So what are you waiting for?

Good luck. You got this.

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