Sunday, July 9, 2017

Sexy As Fuck


I literally don’t care if not of you who are reading this agrees with me. The thing about being sexy is that it is a feeling I have, not a feeling you assign on me.

The various magazines try to make me believe that I have to do a lot of shit to achieve sexiness, well, I call that bullshit. Sexiness is within! And because it is within — here’s the best bit — I can claim it! Just like that, right now, I can declare myself to be Sexy As Fuck. Or, if swearwords aren’t in your vocabulary, just Sexy.

You know about self esteem and why having good self esteem is a great thing to posses. I feel about myself as a handsome man. Cultivating high sexual self esteem (as well as a general self esteem) is very rewarding and of course enjoyable.

As a 52 years old male, born as double Aries, I know it can be hard to get rid of years (in most cases decades) of sexual repression and oppression in my stale marriage and the cultural conditioning of fear and shame around sexuality that many of you grew up with.

A quarter of the population are dealing with the aftermath of all kinds of childhood abuse, and 1/3rd of women are dealing with having been physically or sexually assaulted. 85% of women cannot reach sexual orgasm. This is not just statistics... it is truth.

You want to be sexy? Sexy as fuck? But then you look in the mirror and the scene understandably dampens your enthusiasm. Can I tell you something?  Being sexy as fuck has little to do with looks and everything to do with being conscious and having a spark of the light in your eyes.

Stop thinking you’re not sexy and just be sexy. It is all about your attitude change. Get rid off your past love stories so they don’t linger around your current story. Bringing the pain and heartbreak of the past into the present will kill your sexiness with fear.

The constant chatter of your mind really lies to you, it convinces you that history is repeating itself. The only way to live in present is to first look the memories, process them and heal those that hurts. Learn from the past and determine to make the present far better. And that, my friend, is the sexy as fuck.

Kiss your partner and ask her how it feels. Communicate!!! Touch her until you feel that you are touching her heart. From out of that connection grows the magic of love, skin on skin until you lose yourself, until you disappear.

Sex is an art of disappearance. You can drive your partner crazy by learning how her body responds. It isn’t difficult, time consuming or mysterious. It’s will be surprising to you when you discover that you can talk about what she likes because it means you will find out and know about what works.

That sense of knowing drives your actions confidently. Nothing attracts woman more than inner confidence and I am not talking here about arrogance but of your eyes looking at her eyes while your hand touching her.

Don't talk too much, it is not necessary and that gives you a kind of mystery that tells her that you would not bring a lot of “drama” into a relationship. Rather, make her life more interesting.

Stand tall, shoulders back and look her in the eyes. Smile. Your posture and the way you present yourself tells her about you. For me, the romance can be as simple as honestly looking into her eyes in order to see what’s really going on inside of them. The relationship are the words you use in a text during the day or when you say goodnight. Taking the time to ask how she feels at the moment and finding out what she is saying creates great romance.

And, my friend, that’s the secret to making yourself the sexy as fuck.


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