Monday, January 15, 2018

Geez, women after 40 are really arrogant creatures


It was Valentine Day two years ago... I was thrilled to see a middle-aged, overweight and overworked man and his 40-something, chubby, exhausted wife and mother-of-two run to the opening night of Fifty Shades. This showed me, hope still exists...

I would like to know how many orgasms Fifty Shades of Grey books has inspired, and how much marital boredom was killed... I think, the impact of the books are incalculable, far beyond the bedroom.

It's all relative, of course, but the movies are infinitely better than the poorly written books they're based on, which were the best-sellers because of the naughty bits, rather than the story. In nutshell, a young attractive woman is pursued by a young attractive man. But for all his money, good looks, kinky toys and a helicopter, he's just a scared little boy who can't open up or have a healthy relationship...

I liked it, it is just a fantasy and the fantasy doesn't follow the rules of real life. I recommended the books and movies to housewives, it will turned them on. After watching the movies, men will take sex more seriously... And yet, some people will find themselves offended by these movies.

It's now very common to hear people say, "I'm rather offended by that." As if that gives them certain status, it's actually nothing more then a whine. They will find the raw, dirty talk in bedroom to be offensive. They'll be offended... Well, so fucking what!

Did you know that only 25% of women are able to reach orgasm during sexual intercourse? According to long-term studies, 50% of women have the orgasm once in a month, 20% once in a year, and 5% never have orgasms.

Can you imagine? 3 of 4 women can’t feel complete sexual pleasure because their clitoris and vagina (read mind) have become numb and there is at least 1 of 4 who has never experienced an orgasm – even after decades of having sex.

No wonder that so many women over 40 have lost their desire for sex, have been emotionally abused and are fearful, or think that there is something wrong with them because they don’t feel the pleasure that they hear other women talk about.

The problem of orgasm is just a tip of the iceberg of modern living. The real 50 shades of gray is the gray area between asexual and sexual. More than 50% of the general population do not normally experience sexual attraction. Gray-sexual, demisexual, semi-sexual, asexual and sexual-ish... The beauty of the internet is that there are a lot of sites out there that explain these terms. And yet, I blame the orgasm problem to the fact that you take the life way too seriously.

Women are not the same and there are exceptions, but according to my own observation, nearly 70% of women of age 40 and up suffer from lost of sexual desire. The sex drive usually decline after the birth of the child, somewhere in late 30ties.

"I just became less and less interested in sex," says 42 years old Lisa mother of two. "Eventually, it wasn't on the agenda at all. Not that I wasn't interested in the idea - but it just didn't do anything for me. My answer was to throw myself wholeheartedly into my business and everything else, so I wouldn't think about the problem."

When a woman loses interest in sex, the impact on relationship can be disastrous.

"There is no question that this is causing depression and a whole host of headaches, pains and other apparently unconnected physical problems," says Mike Perring, a GP and sexual psychotherapist. "Good sex is part of general well-being for most people."

To simplify things, most of the women over 40 have stopped liking sex. Back in my dating days I had conversation on match.com with a nice looking 40-something lady...


Why she lost her desire for sex is a mystery. The sexual intercourse, sexual desire and in the end the satisfaction... sexual thoughts, erotic fantasies, and daydreams are disgusting, like animals.

Guy gets her flowers, girl gives him head! As a teenage girl said...  "I'm sorry, but I'm really sick of this stupid stereotype. Don't get me wrong, I love pleasing my man with some BJ, but I don't fucking want flowers."

Women after 40, do want flowers.



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