Monday, March 18, 2019

Lets talk about love and relationship...


At this point in your life, you have accumulated experiences and life lessons so you can look honestly at yourself. You consider yourself a knowledgeable person but you still wonder in confusion...  

Why are you not happy?

I mean particularly in your relationship, if you have the one.

Forget what you watch in the movies or on TV. A happy relationship isn't anything like what you see there, full of romance, candlelight dinners and a trip around the world.

Ask yourself - What do you truly want?

What do you truly want? That is the crucial question. Not what someone else thinks, not your partner, spouse, family, friends.

No matter how hard you try, you feel that your relationship is not satisfying.

Do you know why?

You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what couldn't, would've happened... or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and understand your partner just reinforcing your own limiting belief about yourself.

It is not all about sex, isn't it?

It is really hard to believe but, you are attracted to the things you don’t want anything to do with.

When you’re desperately holding onto a relationship, it’s usually the attachment, not love. Love means happiness. Fear wants to hold onto whatever appears to make you happy so you don’t have to feel alone.

Your relationship is just as you are.

Much of what you see in your relationship, and the world in general, is actually a reflection of your own beliefs. You’re with your partner who leaves you feeling annoyed, nervous, troubled, suspicious, edgy, or in any way uncomfortable.

All that comes from the reflection of your hidden beliefs.

If you’re harboring fears and insecurities, your partner will do noting else but reinforce those, and as a result you’re going to feel uncomfortable around your partner. And that is a reason you are in an uncomfortable relationship.

You can leave relationship, get divorce or whatever, but you cannot leave yourself.

This is a simple truth. In the beginning of a marriage you feel loved and appreciated, because you are conditioned that marriage is something nice and you expect such loving and desiring feelings. Later, things do change.




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