Thursday, October 1, 2020

The struggle of online dating continues

Last night, around 6 pm, I went to Brampton for yet another date from Bumble. Oh my God, what a waste of time. The woman I met is in a complete disarray. She was looking nice, don't get me wrong, a Romanian origin, we had a long conversation. It was raining outside and after couple of drinks we sat in her car and talked a lot.

She liked me and I liked her but it took me only 5 minutes to see that she is not dating material. She is in a complete mess and really I don't want to get even close into such things.

She has separated from her husband 2 years ago but still she has connection with him. He spend all their family money and they sold the house to return the debt and on the end they divorce. She lost her job in February, and since then she is unemployed, living at her sister's place, taking medication for depression.

But what struck me the most is her view on relationship, drinking and sex. She complicates everything. I have never heard such point of view and I was intrigued to find out the reason behind. She wants a total love but without sex. She hates it and she does not want it. She drinks a lot but she hates to smell alcohol and that is a reason she never kiss.

I mean I was there in Brampton, that is like 1 hour drive from my place, sitting in the car with nice looking woman, outside raining like hell... and she is telling me that only love can save her. I wanted to puke but I just smiled.

I was a good listener for her life's story and I was surprised by her openness. After couple of questions I found out that she was abused as a kid from her father and that is the reason she does not like sex. I did not know wat to say to her. I just said that she is not in position to date and it is better for her to take care of herself, find a job and move out of er sister's place.

When I came home it was 11:30 pm and I was completely drained from the evening. I could not fall asleep for a long time. I hate sad stories and dating is not supposed to be like this but as you see it happens.

This morning I woke up at 8 am and immediately I texted her that our story ends here, she is not in position for dating etc., etc. and ciao bella. She did not respond yet but I deleted her phone.

In mean time I got another phone number from a Canadian teacher and she wants to meet me. I said okay so next date is coming... keep you posted. 😉

The Universe is angry on me, my friends!... I am not sure what is wrong and why the Universe  does not send me somebody normal, somebody who wants what I want.

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