There is only this, the present scene of the movie called my life.

On this Tuesday afternoon, I have no specific plans what to do. My general schedule is what I wrote in the header of this blog. I'm trying to follow it the best I can. April started very well but then I met someone, yes I have a woman in my life now, and I was spending time with her, disregarding my practice, so I fell behind yoga schedule. I just did 8th yoga practice of this month.

Before I go on the main theme of this post I have to tell you a news. Namely, The Vatican has announced its 5th International Health Conference on “Exploring the Mind, Body & Soul,”. The speakers are well known globalist such as a daughter of former U.S. president Bill Clinton - Chelsea Clinton, then, the CEOs of vaccine companies Pfizer and Moderna, the director of the U.S. National Institutes of Health - Dr. Anthony Fauci, and many others including Deepak Chopra, a modern New Age guru.

You can read entire article here.

What they have to do with the mind, body and soul I really don't know. But this Vatican conference was questionable from the very beginning, from the 1st conference back in 2011. On the first such conference one of the speaker was pop star Katy Perry addressing attendees on the subject of transcendental meditation. (???)

Anyway, here we go...

What women really want?

Besides the spiritual awakening and the meaning of life, I do investigate relationship and women behavior in general. Women are complex creatures. They operate on a different wavelength than men - especially when it comes to relationship. But, they're not exactly such great mystery.

What every women want in a relationship is this:

1. Feeling safe

We, (the men), have to show her, by the actions, that we respect her opinions, careers, interests, friends. You don't have to agree with all that she say or do, but try to honor her opinions as valuable contributions. Be honest, fair, kind, and considerate.

Women need us to show kindness, patience, understanding, empathy, and compassion. We must be considerate of her feelings and recognize her moods by being compassionate, cherishing her and caring for her. That gives her a feeling that she is a safe and she can afford to open up in the relationship.

2. Sex

You will be surprised that I put sex on the second place of what women wants in relationship because my general opinion is that 70% of women after 45 have lost their interest for sex. It is a paradox. Most women after 45 who has lost interest for sex still want a relationship, but they actually do not know that they do not want sex at all.

In January I met a woman 52 years old, petite, nice body, and we cuddled on the couch, it was a first date, she asked me how she did not met me before and what she is going to do with me? It was a mutual chemistry and date was going well.

I told her lets go to bedroom, and then she stood back surprised. She told me that she did not have sex for last 4 years and she will be not comfortable to sleep with me, not then, not on next date and not on date after that. I told her no need for worry there will be no next date.

So I am not taking about those women. I am talking about women who feels safe in relationship, have healthy feelings and are emotionally stable. And yes, such women love sex but they will never admit it. From small physical touches to the pure fucking, they love it so much. In a difference from men, they can never, ever, have too many orgasms.

Sex can be wrapped up in a romance, the romance is important too. Date nights, making out in the car, kissing like when you first started dating - all of the things that made her fall in love with you don't have to stop just because there are bills to pay, a house to be cleaned, and kids that need to get taken care of.

3. Friendship

Being a friend to partner means treating her in the patient, accepting manner in which you treat other close friends. It’s okay to have some childish fun when it’s appropriate, but it’s important that sometimes it’s better to sit back and think through problems before trying to force her into anything.

Humor and laughing is important. This doesn't mean that you have to crack jokes or entertain her, but just being able to laugh at yourself is enough. Guys who take themselves too seriously bring everyone down.

And that's it. Three simple things for a good relationship.