I got compliment that I look here like an 19 year old boy. LOL

Did you know that 3/4 of women over age 40 report having at least one problem with sexual function -- whether its low desire, loss of arousal, trouble having an orgasm, or pain during sex?

Probably not, since it’s not something you hear much talk about.

Nearly 50% of women of age 40 and up suffer from lost of sexual desire. The sex drive usually decline after the birth of the child, somewhere in late 30ties.

"I just became less and less interested in sex,' says 42 years old Lisa mother of two. "Eventually, it wasn't on the agenda at all. Not that I wasn't interested in the idea - but it just didn't do anything for me. My answer was to throw myself wholeheartedly into my business and everything else, so I wouldn't think about the problem."

I couldn't really tell where I was... somewhere in Belgrade, December 30, 2021

When a woman loses interest in sex, the impact on both her and her partner can be serious.

"There is no question that this is causing depression and a whole host of headaches, pains and other apparently unconnected physical problems," says Mike Perring, a GP and sexual psychotherapist. "Good sex is part of general well-being for most people."

Women's sexual desires naturally fluctuate over the years. Highs and lows commonly coincide with the beginning or end of a relationship or with major life changes, such as pregnancy, menopause or illness.

If women lack of interest in sex continues or returns and causes personal distress, they may have a condition called sexual interest/arousal disorder.

But they don't have to meet this medical definition to seek help. They're not usually bothered by a low sex drive or decreased sex drive, for them that is just a lifestyle change.


57 but still young, the first and foremost in my heart

What's really behind all this and why they lose desire for sex? 

I don't know. Look for yourself...


The sexual intercourse, sexual desire and in the end the satisfaction... it is disgusting, like animals. Sexual thoughts, erotic fantasies, and daydreams are not on agenda.

What is left?... well, guys get them flowers and girls give them head. As one teenager said...  "I'm sorry, but I'm really sick of this stupid stereotype. Don't get me wrong, I love pleasing my man with some BJ, but I don't fucking want flowers."

Women after 40, do want flowers.

That's it...