Simplify your life

I am a happy guy, simply because I chose to be happy. I find satisfaction in what I already have.

Observe yourself

Observe your thoughts and emotions, from the position of a passive observer. Notice your patterns of behavior, find out your strength and weaknesses. I can not tell you what to do with that observation, do nothing, the changes will come automatically.

I urge you to be satisfied with less, with a simpler life, rather than always wanting more, always wishing and acquiring. Examine why you want things you desire, and see your issues. At the root of wanting more is not being satisfied with what you already have. Stop desiring, start enjoying!

I don't say I don't want a new stuff. I am not immune to wants, I catch myself now and then to spend a lot going out, for vacations and gifts to others. I have never wanted anything for me personally, I have a problem of giving out so much to other people. And that comes from my self-importance.

Are you satisfied with your life?

Your partner doesn't behave how you want it. That’s often at the root of all relationship problems.

Being in the relationship isn’t always easy, as you are usually trained to try to change people. Well, you will only find trouble if you try to change your partner. You will never change neither their mind nor their behavior, only you will succeed to make them unhappy, and in turn, your relationship will suffer.

Most of you who read this are not satisfied with the work or job you do. Well, every job wants to make you robot-like creature and you should rebel. You should not stick with a dead-end job and a boss that treats you like shit. If you’re unhappy with your job, change it.

Having a touch of indifference towards job you do will generally help you. Complaining, being grumpy, or negative will not improve your chances to get things better. Actually, that leads to problems at work.

When you find yourself unhappy with something, or with what you don’t have, take a moment and become aware of your surroundings, of yourself as being alive. Understand, you re here temporary.

Learn to enjoy the simple things!